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Christian Living

We Like To Play Games… How About a Quick Game of “Church”

We love games.
We love to play. board of chinese checkers for a blog post on playing the game of church
Monopoly, Operation, Chutes & Ladders, Connect 4…
Football, Baseball, Golf, Soccer…

From early ages, we learn to play games. We can even use our imaginations to make up new ones.
I remember playing lots of games with my cousins at Mamaw’s house.
Our favorite required that she give us each a towel and safety pin it around our necks as our capes.
Then we’d go out and fight imaginary crime as Batman and Robin and Batgirl.
(I never got to be Batman, but fortunately I was never forced to be Batgirl, either!)
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So, there is no question. We love games. But what happens when we turn something that is not a game into one?

“I know, let’s create a new game.”
“OK, but what will we call it.”
“How about… “church”?

God tells us that the Christian life is serious. That it costs you your life. That even if you are never required to be a martyr for the Christian faith, you are to have made the decision that your commitment to Christ is greater than your commitment to your own beating heart. That we should hold tighter to Jesus than to our own lives.

God tells us that we are to be about His business and that His business isn’t a game. In fact, He tells us that if we are serious about His business, it will lead us to encounter persecution. And if we encounter real persecution, we will know that real Christianity is not a game. And yet, here in America where we don’t experience much persecution for our faith, we have learned how to “play church.”

God never said that living for Him would be easy. In fact, He promises that it will be quite difficult.
He tells us that our own family members will turn against us; that others will hate us for our beliefs; that we will be slandered; that we might even physically have to die for our faith in Him. Jesus tells us that being a real Christian will bring a sword into your life.

But it doesn’t often seem to be the case for American Christians, where we seem to think that being a Christian will make life easier and more comfortable as God pours out blessings and safety and protection. That is quite a contrary message to what Jesus says in the Bible.

And then we look at people living in other areas of the world…. Some people are still living in countries where Christianity is persecuted. Persecution for Christian beliefs is still extremely strong in other places in the world.

Some missionaries are still going into countries where their lives are in danger, but because they are more concerned with people going to hell than with their own lives, they go in order to fulfill the Great Commission.
Do you think we would be more serious about God if we had to weigh whether we might die for our beliefs? Do you think we would value the Bible more if it was illegal to own one or teach from one?

Perhaps God has blessed us so much in, and given us such freedoms, in order that we might use these things to share more freely with others. Maybe we should be praying: “God thank you for loving me so much and placing me in America where I have so many freedoms, including freedom of religion. In response to your love for me and the blessings you have provided me I am going to make knowing you and your Word the #1 priority in my life and share my love for you with others. No matter the cost.”

Instead of taking that type of attitude, we hoard our resources and use them to please ourselves. And then we hear about “the danger” of missions and the persecution in the rest of the world and we just hope God doesn’t call us to missions – let someone else do that dirty and dangerous work. Not me.

And God, definitely don’t call my children to go!

So, even though many of us “dedicate” our children to the Lord in some worship service, we are actually unwilling for God to them as He sees fit!

While we are fearful of someone thinking we are eccentric or extreme because of our faith, some people around the globe are actually having to consider prison and death as a real possibility of what it means to accept Christ – and yet they still choose Jesus and aren’t afraid of death.

We love games. Games are fun. But church should never be a game.

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Christian Living

I Choose Death (or even “Living as a Dead Man”)

a skull to symbolize "living as a dead man" or choosing deathWhat a morbid title for a post. And no, this is not a post about zombies!

I recently shared that we need to Hate our Families [hyperlink], based on Jesus’ statement that “He who loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me,” ending with the idea that we can actually love our families more by loving them less… loving them less than we love God. If we refuse to do so, then God is not the One who is actually seated on that King’s Throne in our life.

But there is something even more likely to rob Jesus of His rightful place than our own family—the love of one’s own life.

So in addition to this hard statement of “hating family,” Jesus added more difficulty with “And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me.”

Jesus, why do You keep saying such hard things? Don’t you know that I don’t really like these ideas? I want following you to be a bit easier than carrying a heavy, rough cross and constantly having some painful burden on my shoulders.

We haven’t witnessed anyone dying on a cross, so this statement loses some of its meaning for us, but the people in Jesus’ day knew what it meant to “take up” a cross. They knew it wasn’t just a heavy burden to bear for a lifetime (which often is how we view the idea). They saw men bearing their crosses to the places where they were to be executed; they watched these condemned criminals die by crucifixion.

They understood that taking up one’s cross meant to walk to one’s death.

The statement means that one should live in devoted abandonment to Him, such that even death is not too high a price to pay. Those who call themselves Christ-followers are to value Him so highly that they do not count their lives precious to themselves.

To “take up your cross daily” means to die to self daily.

“The cross is always an instrument of death, not just an object to carry around with us for all of life. The Christian is to die mentally and actively – not just carrying the cross as a burden, but marching toward self-death. The Christian is to deny himself daily. He is to let the mind of Christ, the mind of humbling himself to the point of death, be in him and fill his thoughts every day. He is to put his will, his desires, his wants, his ambitions to death. In their place, he is to follow Jesus and to do His will all day long. This is not negative, passive behavior. It takes positive, active behavior to deny one’s self, to take up one’s cross, to follow Christ.” (from POSB Commentary)

Jesus is telling me: In regard to your love for family, your love for Me should make that love look like hate. BUT in regard to your love for self, your love for Me requires that you be willing to sacrifice your entire life. The cross is a means of execution.

When a missionary was heading into an area known to have violent people, the person getting him there by boat said to him – “You shouldn’t do this. Don’t you know that if you try to preach to these people they might kill you? You will likely die here.” To which the missionary answered, “Oh, that’s not a problem. I died before I ever stepped foot on your boat.”

We are to choose Christ. In doing so, we are to choose death.

And so…
I am ready to die – in fact I already have.

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Relationships

The Choice to Be A Reconciler or A Rejecter

Everything we say has a possibility of helping people feel either reconciled or rejected.
We can either heal or hurt with our words.

three matches burning to indicate it just takes a small spark to start a fireA forest fire can be started with a small spark, and the tongue can be that spark in someone’s life. Though the tongue is only a small part of the body, it is a key to producing words. And so with that small muscle, we can set someone’s world on fire – we can tear them down or we can build them up.

tobymac sings that it’s crazy, amazing that we can turn a heart with the words we say. That hope can live or die due to what we speak, so we should speak life to others.

Are you using your words to build others up – being a reconciler? or do you spend more time tearing others down?
God has committed to me and to you… He has entrusted to us… the ministry of reconciliation. What will you do with this ministry He has handed off to you?

Matt Chandler states it this way: Our understanding of God’s love for us, despite the fact that we don’t deserve it, enables us to love others in spite of themselves. Affection for the Lord leads to affection for others, resulting in outdoing one another in service. It makes us ask ourselves questions like:

  • How can I be concerned about you and your needs?
  • Why shouldn’t I take the farthest parking spot?
  • How about if I take the seat that’s has a blocked view?
  • What if I lose so you can Win?
  • How can I disadvantage myself for your advantage?
  • What would it mean to consider you more significant than me?
  • “Compassion linked to the gospel is compassion that goes beyond merely observing hurting people; it sees hurting people and realizes that Jesus loves them immensely. Ultimately, then, it’s not our compassion but the compassion of Jesus that fuels and sustains our desire to act on others’ behalf. When We remember how gracious and compassionate Christ has been to us, our compassion is as sustainable as our remembrance of the gospel” (Matt Chandler).

    So how strong is your remembrance of the gospel?
    How well do you remember how Christ reconciled you to the Father?
    Are you ready to help reconcile others to the Father – even those whom you never had a relationship with before, those to whom you wouldn’t typically be with, because Christ loves them and calls you to it? He is calling you to be relationally intentional toward others so that you can share with them the word of reconciliation… the truth that they can find salvation in Jesus Christ – the transforming Savior.

    Because God has radically transformed us, we shared a common bond deeper than anything that can divide us. Let us teach others about that deep, deep love. Become a relationally intentional reconciler.

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    Worship

    How to Hate Your Family

    What? Why Would I Want to Hate My Own Family…

    Well…Because Jesus commanded it:
    “He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me; and he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me.”
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    1. Christ must be loved Supremely – above ALL else, even family;
    2. We must be willing to suffer shame & even death for Christ; &
    3. We must give up all of our own desires to adopt His desires.

    I say “MUST” because if you refuse to do so, then he says you are not “worthy” of Him… Not worthy of being called or counted as one of His disciples.

    In another place, Jesus states it even more strongly – “If anyone comes to Me, and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be My disciple.” This One known for supreme love tells us to hate our own family? But in other places He tells us to love others as we love ourselves. So what is He saying? That your love for Him must be so great as to make all of your other loves look like hate in comparison.

    Our first and strongest loyalty is to be to God.

    The reason for this is that the only One who can control your life without destroying it is Jesus Christ. When you take control, you will damage and/or destroy your life. Many of us can testify to the fact that we have seen life begin to fall apart when we put God over on the sideline and tried to take control ourselves.

    In the same way, Terrible things happen when family relationships are put before God. Families cannot be what they should be without God. No family can reach its full potential without God. Without God as the key Leader, a family will lack spiritual growth, will lack the Holy Spirit’s strength and conviction, will lack true commitment to one another, and will lack a guiding purpose. There is only One who can control your family without destroying it. Without Him as the family leader, there is a lack of spiritual strength to face the trials and crises that confront the family during life together.

    The point is this: we must love God supremely, putting Him before all others, even before our own family members. When we do, our families are assured of being everything they should be and of being looked after and cared for by God. Therefore a person’s decision to follow Christ is the best decision he can make for his spouse and his family.

    John Piper wrote it this way to his son on the occasion of his marriage – “Love her more by Loving her less” – By loving God supremely, He will help you love her more completely.

    So let us love our families more, by loving them less.