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Serving Others

The Cold Water Challenge!

three people taking the cold water challenge of having ice cold water poured on them for charitySo Facebook and social media are presently filled with people pouring ice cold water on themselves and asking others to do the same – all in the name of charity… “Pour cold water on yourself to serve others.” Sadly, we are finding out that several people may have died from the challenge, and warnings are popping up asking people to “not rise to the challenge.” So maybe it is time to take a different twist on it and engage in the “cold water challenge” that Jesus provided… “Give a cup of cold water to someone else to serve them with hospitality.”

As I mentioned in my previous post, to give someone a cup of cold water in Jesus’ day required effort – it meant doing a little extra to serve someone else through your hospitality. It meant more than just taking care of their thirst by pouring them a glass of room-temperature water from the water urn. Instead, it meant taking another trip to the well or the stream to get a fresh cup of cold water.

But another aspect regarding this idea of a cup of cold water is that anyone could provide this cold water to someone else. It didn’t require wealth. It only required effort. A cup of cold water was a blessing that even the poorest person could give to another. It would simply take the effort of going to the well and drawing the water.

This helps to teach us that kindnesses and hospitality are valued in Christ’s kingdom, not according to the cost of the gift, but according to the love and affection of the giver. This takes us back to the idea that God desires mercy & compassion for others to exist in us more than He wants us bringing an offering to the altar.

So the idea is that if you are truly full of the grace of God, you can also be truly rich in good works, even if you are poor according to the world’s standards. God desires us to sacrifice our own desires to care for others, and no matter who we are we have the ability to provide care for others. And we are to do it with the right heart.

So take Jesus’ “Cold Water Challenge” today and richly serve someone else.

How have you seen people show hospitality to others without having to use the world’s “wealth” to do so?

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How To Properly Give A Cup Of Cold Water

How to Properly Give a Cup of Cold Water

“…if anyone gives even a cup of cold water to one of these little ones who is my disciple, truly I tell you, that person will certainly not lose their reward.” –Jesus

cold water coming out of kitchen faucetFor us to give someone this cup of cold water, it takes a lot of effort. First, we have to fight against gravity to get off of the couch. After completing that task, we then have to make the looooong journey into the kitchen to get a glass. Next, we are required to strain against a button on the fridge and patiently listen to the small rumble that tells us that the ice is on its way. The ice then magically pops into our glass. Then we strain against a second button to make the water to fill the glass (or you may have to choose option 2 and endure the arduous journey over to the faucet and laboriously turn the handle). Done. In less than 30 seconds, we have our glass of ice water ready to give to someone who is thirsty. And We never had to leave the comfort of our air conditioned home.

But what was actually involved in providing a “cup of cold water” for someone in Jesus’ day? They didn’t have our magical ice dispensers nor clean tap water from the faucet. Giving someone a “cup of cold water” meant taking the trouble to walk to the well or to the stream to draw a bucket of fresh cold water, perhaps even in the heat of the day. To “provide someone with a cup of cold water” meant engaging in an act of hospitality – not something that could be done in 30 seconds without any real effort.

The principle seems to be that God asks us to go out of our way to show hospitality to others. When we do so, we are imitating Him and showing His compassion and kindness.

Unfortunately, many of us (myself included) have forgotten how to provide generous hospitality. We are too focused on our own wants to take the time to serve others in humility. What sacrifices do I need to make today to bless someone else through my hospitality?

When have you been blessed by someone else’s “unlooked for” hospitality?
Any good examples you have encountered that could spur us on in this direction?

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Back in the Saddle Again

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Photo Credit: U.S.G.S. Museum

Two weeks ago my posts mysteriously disappeared once again. The reason… I had headed off to Mexico for a mission trip and didn’t have an easy way to post while I was there. (I’ll share some of the trip with you in the near future.) And then last week was “catch-up” week on all the things that had piled up on my desk. But now that I’ve almost caught up, I’ll get back to posting! Time to get back in the saddle!

It is said that in the late 1700s, a German prince traveled through France and visited one of the prisons. To show his respect to this important visitor, the commander over the prison invited the prince to select any single prisoner to be set free. In order to make the best decision, the prince spoke to one prisoner after another, asking each one why he was condemned to this prison and punishment.

What he found was that one after another told him of the injustice, oppression, and false accusations that had caused him to be placed here. In fact, from their accounts, they were all injured and ill-treated persons who were wrongly convicted.

At last he came to one who, when asked the same question, answered: “Your Highness, I have no reason to complain. I have been a very wicked, desperate man. I deserve even worse punishment than this and to be broken alive on the torture rack. I consider myself to have received a great mercy by being here.”

The prince looked hard at this man, smiled, and said: “You wicked man! It is a pity you should be placed among so many honest men. By your own confession, you are bad enough to corrupt them all; therefore you shall not stay with them another day.” Then, turning to the prison commander he said, “This is the man, sir, whom I wish to be released.”

Interestingly enough, we find ourselves in the same situation. We are desperately wicked people who deserve severe punishment. But the moment we are willing to admit our sins to Jesus, we find liberty.

The Word of God indicates that if we say that we have no sin, we make God out to be a liar, but if we confess our sins He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

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Reach for the Stars and All of Your Dreams Will Come True

Reach for the Stars! Attain All of Your Dreams!
a shooting star symbolizing the saying reach for the stars

We hear these types of things, especially at the end of May during graduation ceremonies and other milestone markers in life. As a youth minister, I heard these “motivational” speeches given to students time and time again.

These statements sound good initially, but the more I think about them…
If you reach for the stars and were finally able to catch one… even a tiny one… it would burn your hand clean off!

And some of my dreams have been nightmares. I don’t want some of those dreams becoming reality – certainly not that dream of me sitting in a final exam in just my underwear nor the one where a monster in the woods is hunting me down to gobble me up.

Of course, we use these little clichés to try to motivate us to make a plan and achieve it. But what if it’s the wrong plan? What if I set my ladder of success up, but once I get to the top of the ladder, I find out that I leaned it against the wrong building?

My plan is to have a safe, comfortable life. But is that goal the same dream that God has for planned for me? I’m not sure that a safe, comfortable life is what God has called me to.

Another one of my plans is to have a happy, healthy family and to put them first. But God says He is supposed to be have priority over my family. When I put my family first, I can allow my desire for comfort and safety in my family to keep me from serving God and from doing what I should. When I do that, I am making my family the supreme love of my life. I am worshipping them, looking after them and their welfare first instead of worshipping and putting God first. When I put my family first, I am allowing my family to become my idol.

“Christ calls us to a higher mission than to find comfort and tranquility in this life. Love of family IS a law of God, but even this love can be self-serving and used as an excuse not to serve God or do his work” (Life Application Bible Notes).

As a youth minister, I would tell my students – to follow your school counselor’s plans for your life is wrong; To follow your friends’ plans for your life is wrong; Even to follow your parent’s plans for your life is wrong. (Sorry parents… but it is true.) These different people can definitely share much wisdom with you, but when God is calling us to His plan, we must leave all other plans behind… no matter whose it is. Our school counselor’s plan, our friends’ plan, our parents’ plan, even our own plan for our own life must be abandoned when these plans are not in-line with God’s plan.

God’s plan is that we not waste our lives on a safe, comfortable life of leisure, but rather that we boldly and courageously live for sharing His message with the world – and that will be uncomfortable in many ways and will even be unsafe in certain situations.

What plans do I need to abandon this week and leave behind so I can start following God’s plan?
How about you?

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Jesus Wants You To Own Nothing

A photo of sunlight breaking through the clouds symbolizing God and His desire for us to own nothing and to turn everything over to Him
My last post was about the fact that Jesus is worth everything. And I used an illustration from R.A. Torrey to help show how Abraham had learned this truth. Today, I want to share with you the rest of what Torrey said about what happened in Abraham’s life. I want to tell you that Jesus wants you to own nothing and for you to give Him complete ownership of everything you have. If you missed the previous post and want to read the first half to “catch up,” click here: Brian’s Previous Post

At this point, Abraham has followed God’s commands, he has taken Isaac to a mountain, and he has prepared to sacrifice his son, believing that God could somehow raise him from the dead. He has raised his hand to kill Isaac, but at the very last moment God stopped Abraham. He tells him:

    I never intended that you should actually slay your son. I only wanted to remove him from the temple of your heart that I might reign unchallenged there…. Now you may have the boy, sound and well…seeing that you have not withheld your son, your only son, from Me.”

    The old man of God lifted his head to respond to the Voice, and stood there on the mount strong and pure and grand, a man marked out by the Lord for special treatment, a friend and favorite of the Most High. Now he was a man wholly surrendered, a man utterly obedient, a man who possessed nothing. He had concentrated his all in the person of his dear son, and God had taken it from him. God could have begun out on the margin of Abraham’s life and worked inward to the center.

    But He chose rather to cut quickly to the heart and have it over in one sharp act of separation…. It hurt cruelly, but it was effective. I have said that Abraham possessed nothing. Yet was not this poor man rich? Everything he had owned before was his still to enjoy: sheep, camels, herds, and goods of every sort. He had also his wife and his friends, and best of all he had his son Isaac safe by his side.

    He had everything, but he possessed nothing. There is the spiritual secret. There is the sweet theology of the heart which can be learned only in the school of renunciation. The books on systematic theology overlook this, but the wise will understand. After that bitter and blessed experience I think the words “my” and “mine” never again had the same meaning for Abraham. The sense of possession which they connote was gone from his heart. Things had been cast out forever. They had now become external to the man. His inner heart was free from them. The world said, “Abraham is rich,” but the aged patriarch only smiled. He could not explain it, but he knew that he owned nothing, that his real treasures were inward and eternal.

    There can be no doubt that this possessive clinging to things is one of the most harmful habits in the life. Because it is so natural, it is rarely recognized for the evil that it is. But its outworkings are tragic. We are often hindered from giving up our treasures to the Lord out of fear for their safety. This is especially true when those treasures are loved relatives and friends. But we need have no such fears. Our Lord came not to destroy but to save.

    Everything is safe which we commit to Him, and nothing is really safe which is not so committed.

Abraham committed all He had to God. He retained ownership of nothing – not even the life of His own precious child. No matter what God commanded, Abraham was willing to do. Am I a person who has committed everything to God for safe-keeping? Have I turned all that I possess over to Him so that I am now one who owns nothing and yet find myself rich in Him?

What are the things that you have refused to give to Him?