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Changing Conversations (A Skill That So Many People Need to Develop!)

Changing Conversations. Goodness… how badly this is needed today!
Are you like me and have become frustrated with the conversations you see on Social Media? Have you seen the fact that we no longer even know HOW to have conversations? We have a long way to go regarding Changing Conversations that are taking place around us! I’ve had several people tell me they have become extremely frustrated with how difficult it has now become in knowing what you should or shouldn’t say or post. We definitely need some help in changing our conversations!

a picture of two sheep bleating at one another symbolizing our need for changing conversations with others
This is too often what our conversations feel like – a lot of bleating at one another!

One of the phrases we have latched onto at FBC Newton regarding Changing Conversations was added into our statement of roles and tasks:

“I Am a Disciple.
I Am a Disciple-Maker.
And I Am a Missionary.
So as I am going,
I will change my conversations, and
I will excel still more.”

We are called to be Disciple-Makers. In fact, according to 2 Timothy 2:2 , we are to Make Disciples who will Make Disciples. This verse gives us four generations of disciplemaking:
Paul disciples Timothy who disciples Faithful Men who disciple More Faithful Men!

Therefore, we talk about the commitment that as a Disciple-Maker, I will change my conversations attempting to bring God and Christ into every conversation, teaching others how to know and obey everything that Jesus commanded. To do that we need to commit to these items:

  • I will intentionally make new friends
  • I will make time to be part of a disciple group
  • I will share the things I’ve learned as a disciple with my family and my d-group
  • I will change my conversations. If you are thinking that some of these roles and tasks bleed into each other, you would be right. Being a disciple, bleeds into disciplemaking, which also overlaps with being a missionary. And so changing our conversations deals with all three. The truth is that as we are going about our day we converse with people all day long. We talk about the weather, we talk about sports, we talk about recreation, we talk about vacations, we talk about family, we talk about the pastor. But since we are to “Walk Like Jesus Did,” then we should always be working to change the conversation (to steer it) toward God.

    For example, if the weather has provided a summer drought and finally there is a break in it through a strong rain, then when someone says, “It sure was great to get some rain yesterday,” we typically say something like “Yes, it sure was.” But how about working to intentionally change the conversation and move it toward God: “Yes, it sure was. God really blessed us in sending us that rain.”

    See that wasn’t hard at all. You barely changed it, but you brought God into it, opening the door for more conversation about God in the future. And as you do it more and more, it gets easier and easier to bring God into your conversations. And in time you will be able to move the conversation more clearly toward Jesus.

    Changing Conversations. We need you to start doing it today.
    So as you are going wherever you go today, go out and Change Your Conversations for Jesus!

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    Excelling Still More as a Disciple of Jesus Christ

    What are you excelling at in your life right now? Paul indicates to the Thessalonicans that, though they are walking well in the way they are following Jesus, they should strive to excel even more. We have used that phrase to be a distinctive of how we will strive to live as church members at FBC Newton:

    “I Am a Disciple.
    I Am a Disciple-Maker.
    And I Am a Missionary.
    So as I am going,
    I will change my conversations, and
    I will excel still more.”

    This year, we have also added these three habits: And I will study, practice, and teach God’s Word.

    As disciples, we are to walk like Jesus walked.
    And, according to 1 Thess 4, we are to Excel Still More.

    In verse 1, Paul says: “Finally then, brethren, we request and exhort you in the Lord Jesus, that as you received from us instruction as to how you ought to walk and please God (just as you actually do walk), that you excel still more.”

    They were walking in a way to please God, but Paul urged them to excel even more.

    And then again, in verse 10, as Paul speaks about them being people of love toward others, he states: “…Indeed you do practice it toward all the brethren who are in all Macedonia. But we urge you, brethren, to excel still more.”

    Therefore, I encourage each of us who are disciples, to take up these commitments:
    1. I will excel still more in my understanding of God and obedience to Him.
    2. I Will Love God’s Word
    3. I Will Love to Pray
    4. I Will Love to Obey
    5. I Will Use my spiritual gifts to build up the church.

    If you are not doing these things – reading God’s Word regularly, praying daily, serving in a way that builds up the church, then you are not properly fulfilling your role of being a disciple.

    Let us be focused on excelling still more as followers and disciples of Jesus.

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    Imitating Jesus – Walking like He Walked.

    Imitating Jesus is the calling on the Christian’s life. We are told that if we are called by His Name, then we are to walk like He walked.

    a photo of some wooden dowels that represent people - one is in front of the rest leading the way - symbolizing our imitating Jesus
    Who Are You Following?

    I hope that you truly believe that God has called you to be:
         a disciple, a disciple-maker, and a missionary.

    My prayer is that my faith family, FBC Newton, would be the strongest disciples, disciple-makers, and missionaries in all of Mississippi. And that together, we would be:
         …growing in love and obedience to Jesus,
         …helping others to grow in love & obedience to Him, &
         …sharing the news of Jesus with those who don’t know Him.

    We are supposed to be walking like Jesus. Jesus told the disciples, “Come, Follow Me” and as you come follow Me, you will learn to walk like Me. You will learn how to talk like Me. You will learn how to interact with others like Me.

    God wants us to pick a side.
    In calling us to “Come, Follow Me,” Jesus is saying take up your cross and die to yourself so that you can live for Me.

    You can pick the side of self.
    Or you can pick the side of Jesus.

    God says: Pick yourself. Or Pick Me.
    But if you do Pick Me, then you are to die to self. Obey to the point of death… giving me full control over your life. The words you speak are always to be My words. The manner in which you live is always to honor Me. The people you interact with are always to see Me thru you – thru your attitudes, actions, & speech.

    Walking like Jesus did. Imitating Him in all areas of life. What does that look like? It looks like the entire New Testament. But I believe we can bring it together in this simple statement that we used throughout 2017:
    “I am a disciple, I am a disciple-maker, and I am a Missionary.
    So as I am going, I will change my conversations, and I will excel still more.”

    (And for 2018, our church has also added in 3 habits: That we will study, practice, and teach God’s Word!)

    I hope you will join me in these roles and tasks and habits!

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    Roles for Every Christian: Disciple, Disciple-Maker, Missionary

    One of the things we discussed at FBC Newton throughout 2017 was the role of a Christian. And within that discussion, we actually identified three roles that God has called each Christian to embrace:
           Disciple, Disciple-maker, & Missionary.

    picture of footprints in the sand, symbolizing the need for us to live in a way that people should follow up as we live out the roles God has called us to
    is anyone following you?

    A quick definition of each of the roles:
    Disciple: A disciple is a dedicated follower of Jesus growing in love and obedience to Him. (Are you growing in love & obedience to Him?)

    Disciple-Maker: A disciple-maker is a disciple who helps a fellow Christian to grow in love & obedience to Jesus. (Are you helping anyone grow?)

    Missionary: A missionary is a disciple who shares the good news of the love of Jesus with those who do not yet know Him. (Are you sharing with anyone?)

    I hope that you truly believe that God has called you to embrace each of these roles:
          disciple, disciple-maker, and missionary.

    At FBC Newton, We stated our commitment to these tasks and roles as follows:

    “I Am a Disciple.
    I Am a Disciple-Maker.
    And I Am a Missionary.
    So as I am going,
    I will change my conversations, and
    I will excel still more.”

    How well are you at embracing the three roles?
    How well are you at completing the three tasks associated with the roles:
    (1) Are you going through life focused on God’s mission?
    (2) As you go, are you changing your conversations to point people toward Jesus?
    (3) And are you excelling in Christian living such that people can see Jesus in you?

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    Good Books versus Great Books. What Else Should I Read?

    There are many books out there. Some of them are worthless and just plain bad. But others are good. And some can even be classified as great books. The first one you need to know about is the Most Important Book ever written. You can read about it in my post from earlier this week. But After reading the Most Important Book, what else should you read?

    A photo of a wall of books, symbolizing the need for us to read great books
    And I thought I had a lot of books!

    There is plenty of junk out there to fill your time. If you are going to read, shouldn’t you want to read great books that can have an enormous impact on your thinking and on your life?

    Charlie Jones: “You will be the same person you are today in five years but for two things:
    1) the people you meet and
    2) the books you read.”

    So, follow the advice of Henry David Thoreau:
    “Read the best books first, or you may not have a chance to read them at all.”

    There are bad books,
    decent books,
    good books, and
    great books.

    However, even if we throw out the bad and decent books, there are still so many good books that we can’t get to them all. Life is too short for me to spend it reading only good books. I want to read the great ones.
    So what would those be?

    Some great resources from Christianity Today for finding Great Books to consider:
    The 100 Christian Books of the Century
    The Top 50 Books that Have Shaped Evangelicals
    CT’s Yearly Book Award List
    These are some great places to start.

    I have been going through those first two lists the past few years and have enjoyed reading many of them. Some of my favorites have been:

    Philip Yancey, The Jesus I Never Knew
    C. S. Lewis, Mere Christianity
    G.K. Chesterton, Orthodoxy
    Richard Foster, Celebration of Discipline
    A. W. Tozer, The Pursuit of God
    Rosalind Rinker, Prayer: Conversing With God
    J. I. Packer, Knowing God
    Ronald J. Sider, Rich Christians in an Age of Hunger
    Catherine Marshall, Christy
    Corrie ten Boom, The Hiding Place
    Phillip E. Johnson, Darwin on Trial
    Rebecca Pippert, Out of the Saltshaker and into the World

    “If you only read the books that everyone else is reading, you can only think what everyone else is thinking.” –Haruki Murakami

    “If we encounter a man of rare intellect, we should ask him what books he reads.” –Ralph Waldo Emerson

    Don’t just read good books (and certainly don’t read bad or decent books).
    Go for the great ones.

    Read great books, because:
    “The things you read will fashion you by slowly conditioning your mind.” –A. W. Tozer

    What books have you read would you consider putting into the “great books” category?