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Finding Renewal When You Are Worn Down and Beat Up

I believe this has been my longest “hiatus” away from writing since I began the blog. Sorry to those of you who thought I must have deleted you from the email subscription list!

The reason wasn’t that I ran out of things to say (as those of you who know me well already knew!), but rather that I have been out of my office (and my house) for much of the past three weeks. The first week out was for a trip to Honduras to spend time with a missionary friend who serves there. The next two weeks were ministry conferences and conventions in Jackson, MS, and Alpharetta, GA. It has been a great three weeks, but I am ready to get back into my regular routine. Thanks for the kind words from those of you who let me know you missed the weekly postings!

Getting away from our regular routines does some great things for us – it lets you see new things, meet new people, have new conversations, imagine new directions, perhaps even reset your course if you have veered a bit wayward on the journey. If we utilize the time rightly, getting away can be a time of refreshment and renewal.

Photo of Lake Yojoa in Honduras where I found time for renewal
Lake Yojoa in Honduras

–This is a photo of Lake Yojoa in Honduras, which was taken from the “Path to Heaven” Camp area in the midst of a coffee and banana plantation at the top of a small mountain. It was a great place to find a time of refreshing and renewal – at least once you finished the hike up to the top! To give you a sense of the scale/size, Lake Yojoa is about the same size as the Ross Barnett Reservoir in Mississippi.–

Now, I didn’t feel worn down or beat up when I left for Honduras some three-and-a-half weeks ago, but almost four weeks later, I find myself with a sense of renewal and refreshment that I wasn’t expecting. And this sense of renewal is from having new experiences with my friend, with the people he is serving, and with the fellow ministers I have been around for the past two weeks. I now have some new ideas to mull over regarding directions for my life and the life of my church family that I would not have ever thought about in the midst of my regular routine.

Paige and I read Genesis 18 yesterday during our family devotion time. This is the account of God and two angels coming to Abraham and discussing the upcoming birth of Isaac. When he sees them, Abraham asks the Lord to rest for a moment under the tree, to let him bring them water to wash their feet, and some food to give them strength – all so that “you may refresh yourselves.” Abraham wanted them to experience a sense of inner renewal before they continue on with their journey. Now certainly, God doesn’t need rest like we do, but Abraham realized the principles of renewal and rest during the journey.

I thank God for giving me an opportunity for rest and renewal these past few weeks. Even though I wasn’t resting under a tree during the time, the break in the routine provided me with a sense of renewal that I didn’t even realize I needed. But many times we don’t get a week or more to find renewal. Many times we have to find renewal in a lot less time. In fact, some of you reading this might be saying – I need a sense of renewal right now!

So let’s try to help each other by answering one or more of these questions to give some possible renewal ideas to those who need it today: How do you do it? How do make sure that you experience renewal during your journey? How has God helped you feel refreshed in the midst of your walk of life? What practices have you put into your routine so that you take time to feel renewed?

For me in this past three weeks, one of the keys was that I spent time with God-honoring, encouraging people. I spent time with people who were available for me to ask important questions to (and who had time to give me their answers). I also spent time in a new location. I spent time away from my regular routine. And during it all, I spent time hearing from God through His Word, through some Sermons I downloaded to listen to, and through reading some ministry-focused books.

What about you? What else would you add about how do find refreshment and renewal on this journey called life?

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Joyless Christians

“Joyless Christians”
by brian rushing

The Word: Oxymoron.
It means: A combination of words that seemingly contradict each other.
There are some great ones we hear and use:

Jumbo shrimp.
Paid volunteers.
An Exact Estimate.
A Rolling Stop.
An Original Copy.
Seriously Funny.
Pretty Ugly.

But how about… Joyless Christian.

Too many people have indicated that they have no interest in Christianity because Christians seem negative and unkind and joyless. They wonder how we can call our God a good God if He turns His followers into such sour individuals.

“We need frankly to face ourselves at this point. We are, perhaps, orthodox evangelicals. We can state the gospel clearly; we can smell unsound doctrine a mile away. If asked how one may know God, we can at once produce the right formula: that we come to know God through Jesus Christ the Lord, in virtue of his cross and mediation, on the basis of his word of promise, by the power of the Holy Spirit, via a personal exercise of faith. Yet the joy, goodness, and celebratory spirit which are the marks of those who have known God are rare among us.”

drawing of a smile on a brick wall to remind us to not be joyless ChristiansHow can this be?
How can we who have been given the greatest gift of all time ever be considered miserable?

Paul indicated that he had learned contentment in every circumstance. How could he have joy in the midst of the difficulties he encountered in life – including suffering and pain? Because he knew that he was loved… in spite of himself.

We all want love, and yet we all worry that if anyone knew the real me, that love would be taken away. But Jesus loved me at my worst. And so I do not have to have any fear that his love will ever be taken away. And that should fill me with such unbelievable joy that the world can never accuse me of being sour or joyless.

“There is tremendous relief in knowing that his love to me is utterly realistic, based at every point on prior knowledge of the worst about me, so that no discovery now can disillusion him about me, in the way I am so often disillusioned about myself, and quench his determination to bless me.”

As you consider that you are loved immensely by the Great King of this Universe, let it fill you up with joy. Ask God to remind you of His love today.

How well are you doing at keeping people from labeling you as that oxymoron of a Joyless Christian?

Strive to wear a smile throughout the day. Be quick to laugh with others. Have an attitude of joy. It is the right attitude for a child of God.


        (Quotes in today’s post are from Knowing God by J. I. Packer)


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How You Handle Winning and Losing Speaks Volumes

Yes, we’ve all been there…watching someone win poorly…
         …and watching someone lose poorly.
And it can be miserable to watch either one!

That is why a few cities have posted signs like this one…
a sign at a city park reminding parents how to behave regarding losing and proper behavior

Ha! I love this sign.
And we know it is needed because we all know “that parent” who needs reminders of how to handle himself (or herself) at the ballfield.
         In fact you might even be “that parent!”

The sign is a clear reminder that our behavior speaks volumes to those around us. And here is the spiritual truth that we can connect to this ballfield sign:
          “How we handle loss shows where our treasure is.”

And not just loss in a little-league ballgame, but real loss in life… loss of a job, loss of health, loss of a relationship, or the death of someone close to you. How you deal with these real losses in life – with real losing – it speaks volumes about where your treasure is. John Piper explains the idea more fully:

“What I know even more surely is that the greatest joy in God comes from giving his gifts away, not in hoarding them for ourselves. It is good to work and have. It is better to work and have in order to give. God’s glory shines more brightly when he satisfies us in times of loss than when he provides for us in times of plenty.

The health, wealth, and prosperity “gospel” swallows up the beauty of Christ in the beauty of his gifts and turns the gifts into idols. The world is not impressed when Christians get rich and say thanks to God. They are impressed when God is so satisfying that we give our riches away for Christ’s sake and count it gain.

No one ever said that they learned their deepest lessons of life, or had their sweetest encounters with God, on the sunny days. People go deep with God when the drought comes. That is the way God designed it. Christ aims to be magnified in life most clearly by the way we experience him in our losses.

Paul is our example: “We were so utterly burdened beyond our strength that we despaired of life itself. Indeed, we felt that we had received the sentence of death. But that was to make us rely not on ourselves but on God who raises the dead” (2 Corinthians 1:8-9). The design of Paul’s suffering was to make radically clear for his own soul, and for ours, that God and God alone is the only treasure who lasts.

When everything in life is stripped away except God, and we trust him more because of it, this is gain, and he is glorified.”

I pray that we will trust God and keep Him as our greatest Treasure in the midst of losing any and all other things.

— brian rushing

         (Quotes in today’s post are from Don’t Waste Your Life by John Piper)

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Avoiding the Fear of Death

We all have fears…
            …heights, confined spaces, flying, spiders, alien abductions!

Or maybe one of your big fears is that ugly, old Grim Reaper.
Are you afraid of death?
photo of a scythe symbolizing fear of death
I have spent time with people who are extremely brave in the face of danger, yet who are afraid to die. I’ve been asked the question: “How do you get to a place where you have no fear of death?”

My belief is that our way out of every fear (even fear of death) is increased trust in God. He tells me that He has this thing called “my life” in His hands and under control. The question is whether I trust that to be true. Because the more I trust Him and believe His Word, the less fear I have – even of that moment when I’ll take my last breath.

In fact, Jesus calls us into a weird paradox – to embrace death when we choose life with Him – death to self. “When Christ calls a man, He bids him come and die.” He tells us: To live is Christ; & to die is gain. Simply meaning that for every Christian, when we leave this earth, we will get to be with Him – and that is going to be better than anything we’ve ever experienced on this life…
           …Better than the moment of saying “I do” and kissing your spouse on your wedding day; better than the moment of holding your tiny newborn baby in your arms for the first time. Death will still be better because the next moment after death I’ll be with Jesus. I think a lot of us still have doubts about the truth of this idea, but until we trust it to be true, we will be afraid of death.

“Fleeing from death is the shortest path to a wasted life.”

We are all called to die to self, such that even if our very lives are taken due to our belief in Christ, it does not matter to us. But we wonder, if I truly have to die for Christ, then how does that benefit anyone? How does that make God look great to others?

“If being a Christian costs you your life, how will that help you make much of Christ? Many have made God look great through their death. When the hour comes for everything to be taken from us but Christ, we magnify Him by saying: “In Him I have everything and more. To die is gain.” If we learn to die like that, we will be ready to live. And if we don’t learn this, we waste our lives.”

What are you afraid of?
And how have you gotten past the fear of death? (even if you are still afraid of snakes!)


— brian rushing
(quotes by Jon Piper in Don’t Waste Your Life)

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The Beauty of God In The Midst of Danger, Tragedy, and Pain

Here in America, we are relatively safe.
We are fairly comfortable.
Life is often pretty easy.
We find ourselves free from many dangers.
And we thank God for this safe, comfortable, easy life.hammock on the beach signifying a life of comfort and no danger

And yet, Jesus didn’t come to this earth to make our lives comfortable and safe. It is extremely hard for us to remove from our minds this notion that God came to make life easy. Here in America – this land of plenty – we have so much. We know that God has blessed us. But why has He blessed us? Is it so we can gather up more and more of His blessings so that we feel more safe and more comfortable? Is it to keep us free from danger, tragedy, and pain?

Hmmmm…. That does not seem to be the way that the disciples lived. Instead, they lived radical lives for the gospel, not focused on their own safety and blessing, but rather on sharing the message of Jesus in the midst of danger and at the cost of their very lives. It was a dangerous calling that caused beatings, pain, suffering – and they rejoiced in the midst ofthis dangerous calling.

They had discovered that Jesus’ “beauty shines most brightly when He is treasured above wealth, above health, and above life itself.”

They realized that “if we can learn to enjoy Christ and magnify Him even in the midst of pain and suffering, we show the world where our true love lies.”

Some of us might say, “But I am ready to die for Christ if it came down to that.” That may be true, but though we might be willing to die for Christ, the question is whether we will choose to live dangerously for Him?

“Some of us would be willing to die for Christ, the question is: are we willing to live for Him, suffer for Him, and magnify Him with our lives…. What we are willing to die for shows our belief, but what we are willing to live for and suffer for shows our radical commitment to our beliefs.”

We must love Christ above His blessings. We must love Him above our comfort. We must love Him above our safety and life of ease. We must value Him above the American Dream that we often find ourselves chasing.

To help understand this even more fully, click on this link to watch an excellent 2.5 minute video on the difference between the prosperity gospel and loving Christ in the midst of suffering.
            youtube.com video – the prosperity gospel

“What you love determines what you feel shame about. If you love for others to applaud you, you will feel shame when they don’t, but if you love for men to make much of Christ you will feel shame when His name is belittled on your account.”

(quotes by Jon Piper in Don’t Waste Your Life)